give and take

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give and take (uncountable)

1. (idiomatic) A process of compromise or accommodation.

   They hoped for an amicable solution, but both knew it would require some give and take.

   • 1966, Holland–Dozier–Holland (lyrics and music), “You Can't Hurry Love”, in Hello, I Must Be Going!‎, performed by Phil Collins, published 1982:

     My mama said "you can't hurry love / No, you'll just have to wait" / She said "love don't come easy / But it's a game of give and take"

• accommodation, compromise, concession, flexibility

• inflexibility, rigidity, stubbornness