même d'un peu de polissonerie, is pardonable with
the latter. [Same date.]
Horse-Laughter.—Loud laughter is extremely
inconsistent with les bienséances, as it is only the
illiberal and noisy testimony of the joy of the mob,
at some very silly thing. A gentleman is often seen,
but very seldom heard, to laugh. Nothing is more
contrary to les bienséances than horse-play, or jeux
de main of any kind whatever, and has often very
serious, sometimes very fatal consequences. Romping,
struggling, throwing things at one another's
head, are the becoming pleasantries of the mob, but
degrade a gentleman; giuoco di mano, giuoco di
villano, is a very true saying, among the few true
sayings of the Italians.
There is a bienséance also with regard to people of the lowest degree; a gentleman observes it with his footman, even with the beggar in the street. He considers them as objects of compassion, not of insult; he speaks to neither d'un ton brusque, but corrects the one coolly, and refuses the other with humanity. There is no one occasion in the world in which le ton brusque is becoming a gentleman. In short, les bienséances are another word for manners. [Same date.]
The Two Ages.—Now that all tumultuous pas-